Ok you  AMAZING  Tidy Tutor Sister!!!! Maybe your aBADASS Brother !

This is a recorded group coaching program that was held in April – June.It was for those who are enrolled in Tidy Tutor University in the April semester, and current members of TTi. The purpose of this group coaching is to have a determined plan of action to take, like your going to night school. You’ve got live classmates, you’ve got an instructor. The normal tendency to put off getting started will be eliminated (or at least harder to ignore).  When we know we are showing up and exected to have work done, we get it done.  While this is no longer live it is still super valuable and you can take each week one week at a time in conjunction with TTU if you like.

  •  Week 1
  • Week 2
  • Week 3
  • Week 4 
  • Week 5
  • Week 6
  • Week 7
  • Week 8
  • Week 9

First Video – Strategy Session

CLICK FOR NOTES AND STAR CHART

Additional Help: Identity and Declaration 

This video is fa recent Cawfee Tawk with additional motivation and instruction regarding how our identity is wrapped up in what we believe we can and can not do, and also it is important to be aware of what we declare regarding achievement.

This is an ebook of all of our habits from TTU. There is a video of each habit, link highlighted in red. 

Broken up for easy reference and listening.

Review and Intro to Week 2

Week 2 Part 1 

Week 2 Part 2

TTU Review – and more

​Members input and Q & A time

Week 2 Part 3 Audio only

Coaching Call for Session 2 in TTU

Part 1 

Part 2

Part 3

Part 4

Additional Support: When “Go Clean Your Room” Doesn’t work – Help for kids.

PDF download Example Of a Kids Daily Routine 

The ebook is all of our habits in one place. There are videos for each tip (highlighted in red)

Bonus Video: Cawfee Tawk on Zones and Weekly Plan

Week 4 TTU Coaching Call “Stoping the Self Sabotage. aka Achieving

Week 4 Part 1

Week 4 Part 2

Week 4 Part 3

Week 4 Part 4

Homework: Take Session 3 and do your best to practice it for the week. Take note of  the things you have questions about to ask on our next session.Be aware of the little (and big) put downs you say to yourself all week, These are forms of identity that you have internalized.  Take the time to irradiate these perceptions of self from your life by creating a new identity.Suggestion: Download the “CALM” app on your phone and do a meditation creating new grooves in your brain (spoken about in session 1) Next Week Q and A on anything in Session 3 

Bonus video: Cawfee Tawk – Consistancy is the key, the door will open by holding onto your vision.

Below are NOTES from week 4

Click the image below for the slides from the recordings.

The image below is of the Calm App. You can click the image and register for calm. You can on the computer but it is an app for the phone, so once you get the app on your phone you just need to login. 

Review of Session 3

Using the binder as a planner – Must do!

Week 6: Session 3 Q and A

*I talk about the blog series I did for writing things down and then off a bit on how our scattered nature and forgetting things… * Don’t leave the house before morning routine and Stop before you leave a room Marker 7:20;04* Should I include zone work and daily focus in the morning because I am a morning person? I have a hard time sticking to the zone work and daily focus. Marker *10:42:11*Question about using the “Dates to Remember pages. Marker 13:54:28*Queston about the goals page. Does it have to be tidy tutor related?  Marker 16:57:13*Using a post it note on boxes of things that don’t have a home while dejunking Marker 24:12:33* Question about Box it up plan and Controlled Stash and Dash. Marker 25:18:21*Question about not having places for storage. 34:45* Marker 31:57 How do I decide what to get rid of?*Question about the zones and do we need to have them written on every page of our planner or calendar we’ve printed out in the binder? Marker 34:31*Queston what do I do with things I want to make sure go to people who can ue them? How do I deal with the guilt of just dumping stuff without being sure they are going to those who need them?  Marker 36:55*Story shared about a members sister who just threw things out at first and how it was a blessing in so many ways to her. Marker 45:12*Afraid that I may get rid of something I wil need. Marker 47:18*I talk about making mistakes in dejunking where guilt might be concerned when getting rid of things. Marker 49:37:42 *Invitations we get in the mail, paperwork we are working on being stuck in the binder and or extra paperwork for desk day and using the binder. Marker 51:26:00*Putting things outside marking them FREE Marker50:49:34*Shoud I make a new binder for things I need to keep track of for my kids? Marker 53:22:20*Example of using the binder dividers 55:23:44

Additional Help: Write it Down Series Below

Write it Down 1

Write it Down 2

Write it Down 3

Week 7 Recorded Live Call Review of Session 4 with commentary

Topic Markers per recording: 1.  1:41 I want to hear what’s going on in your process while taking this group coaching program. Are you just watching and not participating? 2.  2:36 – Our patterns and the need to recognize what they are. 3. 4:43 Star Charts and why they are so helpful in breaking our patterns. 4. 7:32 Going over the 12 habits briefly and answering questions regarding those habits you’ve asked me go go over. 5. 8:04 talking about 12 habit ebook. 6. 7:20 – I ask you to talk to me about how those you live with help or don’t because it can make or break you. 7. 18:05 How we use our binder to plan vacations, holiday’s, 20:55 parties, 21:09 home improvements/renovations, gift giving etc. 8. 22:28 Paper Clutter 9. 23:14It Goes Where it Goes 10. 28:08 Q and A begin  11. 28:40 – Expand on Once Over Day 12. 32:47 Once Over Day as Tickler to Change Sheets/how often to change sheets. 13. 34:53 Solution re writing stuff down and not being able to find the notebook or paper and finding other things we use regularly. 14. 36:55 Things we’ve written on index cards and want to keep in our faces. 15. 38:16 Tips on Menu planning 16. 42:02 Importance of dinner time/Sitting down to eat. 17. 42:56 More on eating regarding daily routine and self care 18. 50:44 Homework for this session (Practice Session 4 and come back with questions on week 8. If you have practiced session 4 and feel really good about it. Assess things that are tripping you up, things that you would like to have more clarity on) 19. 51:22 How long does it take for an average person to get rid of the clutter. 20. 52:39 Expound on Loose End Day

Bonus Video: Cawfee Tawk, Behind the Scenes of creating TTU 2.0 Session 4. It Goes Where it Goes

Bonus Video: 2 Part Dejunking & organizing Papers together

Download 12 habits e-book

Audio of Week 8 – Q and A 

Leave a Reply 29 comments

Lisa - June 4, 2018 Reply

progress report. with this coaching I have completed all of TTU including the binder, I had only taken through Session 3 before and figured I could use my previous 3x5s – wrong. 2 big things I have received from it, first is that I am practicing, if I am honestly doing what I can do, I need to give my self some slack. Second, to just ‘do’ in the zone I am in for that week, I KNOW I will get to the other room I am trying to distract myself with, next week; i.e., thinking I should do something in the office today instead of the kitchen; in the midst of that thought came ‘the office is zone 3 and I will be there next week’, got me right back on track. You asked about family participation, my husband does the slipshod cleaning and any heavy work. An agreement we came to several years ago. He also does most of the shopping and some meal prep. Thank you!

    Kathy Roberts - July 2, 2018 Reply

    Sounds wonderful Lisa! How are you doing now??

    Kathy Roberts - September 22, 2018 Reply

    Sounds excellent! It’s in consistency where all the power lies. It’s where we find what we’re looking for.

kay@wallaces1.us - May 9, 2018 Reply

Kathy, I know you are in Ireland and I hope you are having a wonderful time!! This is for when you are back home. I have put my binder together. It’s very exciting!! One thing, however, I don’t seem to have a page called “crisis cleaning?” Did I overlook that somewhere in past lessons?

    Kathy Roberts - May 11, 2018 Reply

    No, that freaking page has been a thorn in my side. For some reason every time I post the new version (the one you have is missing) it doesn’t show up!

    It’s not a big deal, you can move ahead without it. I’ll correct this when I get back or send you the sheet.

    Cheryl Godsey - May 12, 2018 Reply

    I just wrote mine in on the back of a page right before the cleaning pages, I figured that was a good place to put it. I found it somewhere but I can’t remember where. It was prob a power point slide on one of the lessons and I just paused it and copied! I hope this helps.

Cheryl Godsey - May 9, 2018 Reply

Kathy yes I have my binder together, did it a while back, but I still don’t have the dates or addresses filled in. I need to do that on my desk day which I’m not officially doing😏 I just gonin and pay my bills and do my checkbook when the bills come in. The daily zone thing I don’t have down yet. I set it but I don’t do it , I need to plug a time in for work days and then if I don’t work yay, but I’ve been working full time. I don’t have it figured out yet.

    Kathy Roberts - September 22, 2018 Reply

    Cheryl, it’s in doing the zones where everything comes together. We tend to be so resistant to change. Almost like we’re afraid to succeed.

    Your not alone 🙂

Cheryl Godsey - May 9, 2018 Reply

Lisa I’m the same as u used to always procrastinate getting the shower bc I want to dive into things first. Like u I now most of the time get my shower at night, u less it is going to make me late for bed. Then my punishment lol is that I have to get up earlier to accommodate the shower… I figured out I’d rather make sure I get it early enough at night and it’s a great feeling being able to just get dressed inthe am!

    Lisa - May 12, 2018 Reply

    I’m with you, just doing the dressing is enough or me in the AM! 😀

      Kathy Roberts - September 22, 2018 Reply

      You don’t have to shower every morning. Just have to be ready for the day before anything. Lacy put it best… “get cute”

Lisa - May 7, 2018 Reply

Spent Sunday putting together the binder 🙂 Thanks for the detailed instructions.

    Kathy Roberts - May 11, 2018 Reply

    Wonderful!!!

Lisa - May 3, 2018 Reply

This coaching has brought me clarity on understanding the practicing of routines. I would start a routine and not get everything on it done, this would go on for a few days or a week and I would get frustrated and give up counting it as failure and me just never being able to do it ‘right’. Well somewhere in the coaching I heard you say we are not going to do it all at once but we keep going and that is practicing, You said to be aware of what I don’t get to each day, if it is something different each time to just keep going and it will fall into place. If I miss the same thing everyday that needed to be looked at and figure where it would fit. For me the struggle has always been the shower and dress 1st thing. It rarely got done because the shower trips me up, so this time I decided to just do the get dressed part and figure out the shower as I went. Well not too many days in it occurred to me ‘why not take my shower in the evening’. Woohoo, that is working and my morning routine is now being truly practiced. It’s a big deal!! Thank you.

    Kathy Roberts - May 6, 2018 Reply

    I love your post! And I love that you figured out how to get yourself together in the morning. And I love that you take your shower at night now! Yes! It isn’t about SHOWERING in the morning. It is about being put together in the morning. Love the clarity Lisa! Awesome!!

Cheryl Godsey - May 3, 2018 Reply

Kathy, part 2 is a repeat of part 1. I hope it can be fixed bc I keep having to work and I miss the live coaching so I am dependent on these recordings but they are helping me walk thru the course faithfully. I feel things turning around since I’m getting up on time every day. Thank u!!!

    Kathy Roberts - May 6, 2018 Reply

    I have replied to this on our FB group. I love that things are turning around with the implementation of getting up on time. It is crazy how it adds to our lives BUT it doesn’t take anything away, but we think it does! And thanks again for letting me know that I had the same link on week 2 as week 1! 🙂

jozina.klaverdijk@gmail.com - April 30, 2018 Reply

Hey,

Just to be sure, the homework for next week is session 3??

    Kathy Roberts - May 1, 2018 Reply

    Yes, the homework for next week is take session 3, do your best to practice it (we will do session 3 for 2 weeks so you will have plenty of time to take it and practice it) Come prepared next week with questions from session 3. And also take note of the negative things you say about your self and find the contradictions. We need to re-define our identities. And we do that via programing. Suggestion is to get the Calm app on your phone and do one of their free meditations (I do the open ended meditation) Start with one minute if you aren’t use to meditating)

jozina.klaverdijk@gmail.com - April 30, 2018 Reply

Hey,

Just to be sure, the homework for next week is session 3?

mardi.barton@gmail.com - April 24, 2018 Reply

Hi Kathy – I am unable to watch the coaching call lesson from yesterday, 4/23/18. Was there a glitch uploading it, or am I doing something wrong?
Thanks!

    Kathy Roberts - April 25, 2018 Reply

    I didn’t get it up until just now. What were you trying to upload?

      mardi.barton@gmail.com - April 25, 2018 Reply

      Watching it all now, &, wowsa! You did A Lot for this, thank you!!!

barbbcmc@yahoo.com - April 22, 2018 Reply

I started TTU last summer. I have rewatched the sessions two or three times. This coaching is making a difference for me. I watched & listened to Coaching Week 2 today. Listened to TTU Session 1 as planned last week and practiced all week. Later today I will listen to TTU Session 2. Getting up earlier has gotten easier each day. I have been able to get to work on time without any missing shoe or keys drama. Laundry has not been an issue for me, but it is done daily, except Sunday. As I have been doing my routines, I am finding that what room was dejunked last July & August before my move can use another dejunking session. Things that I wanted to keep back then, are easier to let go of because they just don’t fit my life anymore. My 3 item star chart has helped keep me on track, no Xs so far! Today is day 6. Looking forward to continuing!

    Kathy Roberts - April 23, 2018 Reply

    Thanks for reporting (sorry about the email being your name! Will get my tech team on that) and sounds amazing! And what you found regarding the dejunking in the are that was dejunked last July and August is of course the case. OGP dejunk on a regular basis. We need to do this every time we are in the particular zone we are in. Fabulous!!! and See you on the next call.

jozina.klaverdijk@gmail.com - April 22, 2018 Reply

Hi TTU family,

I just started this 9 week strategy course last week.

I am currently catching up on the videos so I can join the live session tomorrow.

I had allready started with session one in january and have had a good run until I wasn’t able to stay on TTU for monetary reasons. I was lucky enough to be able to join again but I had a hard time starting again. Now that I have started again I feel better allready. More relaxed and more organized.

    Kathy Roberts - April 23, 2018 Reply

    We are all so happy you are back (Sorry about the email being your name issue! I will get the team on it) And awesome on reporting!!!

jaimiecdoodle@outlook.com - April 21, 2018 Reply

Really great! Getting out of bed is something my brain does not want to do; I feel like I can literally feel synapses dying every time I get up. I have been faithful with this since “starting”
TTU this past week. I realize I did not post my short term and long term goals. I will put them on my mirror and fridge, maybe the coffee pot…Feel free to ask me if I did this. I would love the accountability.
Thanks everybody for sharing; it really makes this journey so much more joyous! Looking forward to joining in real time next week.

    Kathy Roberts - April 23, 2018 Reply

    Love your faithfulness to getting up earlier. It is amazing how we get re-conditioned to change!!! You will be an early(er) riser in no time! Love the posting your goals comment. Now I’ll ask you… Did you do it!?

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